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J is for Journaling

Tatyanna M. Wilkinson Women's Wisdom, Workshops 8 Comments

Sexy Journals get Written in More Often.  How does one blog when they have had a frustrating and/or rough night? That’s what journals are for. In your journal you can say what you want to that person or thing that made you angry/hurt/happy/loved/confused. They will never read it and neither will anyone else but you, EVER! So, if I can’t get a blog post out, due to a bad mood, or whatever, I journal about my day and get it out through my fingers. I always journal with pencil and paper. I write and write until it’s all out of me and …

I is for Ignorance is not Bliss

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“Ignorance is Bliss” I am sure you have heard this saying. It can mean different things, but let’s talk about not knowing what dangers lie ahead. Is that really bliss? Is it bliss to have the wool pulled over your eyes? Is it bliss to bury your head in the sand? bliss   n. 1. Extreme happiness; ecstasy. 2. The ecstasy of salvation; spiritual joy. Phrasal Verb: bliss out Slang To go into a state of ecstasy. I truly believe that it is better to see the whole picture. You have as much information as possible. Sometimes truths or realities can be hard …

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H is for the Pursuit of Happiness

Tatyanna M. Wilkinson Women's Wisdom, Workshops 2 Comments

Happiness… Remember the Wil Smith movie happiness where he was pursuing wealth and success and realized happiness had been there all along in his son and the simple things in life? Once he decided to be happy without all the trimmings, success came. That’s how it works. It’s THAT simple. Really, I am not kidding. Once you decide to be content with who and what is in your life and pursue your passion and not money, fame or accolades…you will find great peace of mind and fulfillment=happiness. I could tell you a million personal stories, but I want to keep …

G is for “The Girl Effect” & Girl Power Songs

Tatyanna M. Wilkinson Feminism, Music for Girls, Women's Wisdom 6 Comments

  The Girl Effect is working to help young women in developing countries change their future.  The Girl Effect is a MOVEMENT. It’s about about ending poverty. And it’s about doing so by investing in girls. Learn. Explore. And get involved. I dare you. The Girl Effect is social change in action. It’s about you using your voice, your talents, and your community to help girls help themselves—and, as a result, everybody else. An adolescent girl has the power to stop poverty before it starts. But she needs your help. She needs information, healthcare, and education. She needs laws to change, money …

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F is for the “F” Word

Tatyanna M. Wilkinson Feminism, Indentity, Women's Wisdom 4 Comments

Feminism! Female! Are these the “F” words? Sometimes.  As I sit here surfing the interwebs for resources and ideas for the Smart Girl, Wise Woman curriculum, I am struck by a few things. I am reading articles found through web crawling through article after article and empowerment blog after blog. Many voices are silent. Many voices overshadowed by ceratin themes. Contrary to the “fears” of men, an empowered woman does not necessarily need to become a witch or a lesbian or hate men. Women come in all shapes and sizes, colors and politics. The feminist movement is often viewed as being …

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M is for “Me: Reinvented”

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My life wasn’t perfect. I grew up in the ghetto, without knowing my birth father. I didn’t have the best relationship with my mother or stepfather. I often felt alone, although I had friends. But moving around a lot made it hard to maintain friendships. I witnessed violence in the home in the form of domestic violence and corporal punishment. I was the receiver of verbal abuse. But despite it all, I didn’t grow up a statistic of my circumstances; a high school dropout, a gang affiliate, a teen parent. In fact, I am the only member of my family …

E is for Endings aka Pressing the Reset Button

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Endings don’t always mean that you have to walk away completely. “Ending” can mean pressing the reset button but refusing to continue a pattern. A Divorce is an ending that is final. Quitting a job is an ending that cannot be undone. But are there times when you really want to end a part something but maintain the THING itself? An example would a divorce where you keep the friendship with your ex. OR…quitting your horrible job but still going out to happy hour with your old co-workers. Sounds doable, right? How about something more complex? What if I suggested ending …

D is for Detachment from Insane Situations

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Detachment is almost as hard as surrender. Detachment is sometimes the only way you can stay sane in insane situations.  An insane situation can be a work environment that you can’t quite leave yet, a family that seems more toxic than loving or a relationship has become difficult but you are not ready to just let it go. detachment  n 1. indifference to other people or to one’s surroundings; aloofness 2. (Psychology) freedom from self-interest or bias; disinterest 3. the act of disengaging or separating something 4. the condition of being disengaged or separated; disconnection Let me tell you a little story… I once had a job …